I går var jeg til bisættelse for min elskede faster… en afslutning som hun selv havde taget del i planlægningen af, sammen med sine sønner – og smukt var det ❤
Putte ønskede ikke en storstilet begravelse, men en smuk ceremoni, omgivet af sine elskede sønner og deres familie, nær familie og venner. Hun var en beskeden dame – som satte et ENORMT aftryk i os alle, der var så heldige at kende hende.
Ceremonien forgik i kapellet, hvor hendes sønner fortalte om det skønne og trygge liv, de havde haft med deres mor, hvor et af børnebørnene havde skrevet nogle ord til sin farmor og hvor vi alle kunne tænde et lys for Putte og sætte på hende kiste, mellem alle blomsterne.
Putte fik en smuk sidste tid på hospice, hvor hun virkede afklaret med at skulle afsted og havde sine sønner omkring sig 24/7. Hun var tryg og som den smukke sjæl hun var, var hendes tanker hos alle os andre, hele den sidste tid.
Ceremonien blev akkompagneret af et par af Kim Larsens smukke sange, ”Om lidt bli’r her stille” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUo9IiR6eMw og ”Pianomand”, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_uqLYZacaas, begge sange som Putte selv havde været med til at vælge, og herfra gik vi i samlet flok ud og lagde alle de smukke blomster på hendes kommende gravsted. Egentligt havde Putte ønsket at komme i “De Ukendtes Grav”, men efter hendes drenges ønske, om et gravsted at gå hen til, havde Putte selvfølgelig indvilget i dette – sådan var hun jo – Et af de smukkeste mennesker, jeg nogensinde har kendt.
Dette var et smukt punktum, for et smukt menneskes liv – for denne gang – jeg er måske tosset, men jeg er sikker på, at hun var der, ved ceremonien, omgivet af os, men også af de som hun havde elsket og som ikke er her mere og de, som altid havde elsket hende!
Vi ses igen, Putte, elsker dig ❤
Jeg tror, at jeg nok er en form for ateist, men jeg tror på, at de mennesker vi elsker/har elsket er derude, et eller andet sted, i deres bedste alder og uden sygdomme og sorger, og at de passer på os, og vil være der, når det er vores tur til at komme videre!
Hvad er Jeres mening om de smukke mennesker, der går videre, ser vi dem igen eller…?
A beautiful farewell (for now!)
Yesterday I was at the funeral for my beloved aunt … She had been taken part in the planning of the funeral herself, along with her sons – and beautiful it was ❤
Putte did not want a large-scale funeral, but a beautiful ceremony, surrounded by her beloved sons and their family, other close family and friends. She was a modest lady – who made a HUGE impression in all of us, who was so lucky to know her.
The ceremony went on in the chapel, where her sons spoke of the wonderful and safe life they had with their mother, where one of the grandchildren had written some words to her grandmother, and where we could all light a candle for Putte, and put it on her coffin, between all the flowers.
Putte had a good last time at the hospice, where she seemed ready to leave, and had her sons around her 24/7. She was safe, and as the beautiful soul, she was, her thoughts were with all of us, the whole last time.
The ceremony was accompanied by a couple of the late Danish folk singer Kim Larsen’s, beautiful songs, “Om lidt bli’r der stille” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUo9IiR6eMw and “Pianomand” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_uqLYZacaas, both songs Putte had chosen, along with her sons, and from here we all went out to her future burial place, with all the beautiful flowers. Actually, Putte wanted to put at rest at “The Grave of the Unknown,” but after a wish from her boys, for a burial place to go to, Putte had, of course, agreed to this – That was who she was –
One of the most beautiful people, I have ever known.
This was a beautiful ending, of the life of a beautiful person – for this time – I may be crazy, but I’m sure that she was there, at the ceremony, surrounded by us, but also by those she had loved and is not here anymore, and those who had always loved her –
See you again, Putte, love you ❤
I think I am a kind of atheist, but still, I believe, that our loved ones are out there, in their best age, no sickness or sorrows, and watching over us, and they will be there when we pass over
What are your opinions about the beautiful people which move on, and we miss so much, will we see them again or …?
50+ and Still Growing 
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